Community Standards

Community Standards

Fisting Butter is a premium queer-led community. We exist to create a safe, consensual and welcoming space for gay, bi, queer and trans men and their allies. These standards apply to all members.

Consent first

Every interaction on this platform is built on consent. Do not message, tag, or contact another member in a way they have not indicated they welcome. Accept “no” as a complete answer.

Respect everyone

Treat all members with dignity regardless of their body type, experience level, kink interests, age (18+), pronouns, or identity. Discrimination, body shaming, kink shaming, or targeted harassment will result in immediate removal.

Privacy matters

Never share another member’s private messages, photos, or personal information outside this platform without their explicit permission. Outing members in any context is a permanent ban offence.

Keep it real

Use a genuine profile. No catfishing, fake profiles, or impersonation. Your profile photo should represent you. Accounts found to be fake will be removed without warning.

Safe content

NSFW content is available to Member and Gold tier accounts in designated areas. Do not post explicit content in public feeds or groups. All content must involve consenting adults only.

Report, don’t retaliate

If someone violates these standards, report them using the platform tools. Do not retaliate publicly. Our moderation team reviews all reports within 24 hours.

Contact

To report a serious issue or contact the moderation team directly: hello@fistingbutter.com